Amazing read. Exactly what I was looking for.
Because I am wondering about dating now: where to find someone, how to present myself to them, how much I should heal myself first, what about my ex, etc etc.
This is on the who to find part of things.
To really meet someone, we need to use our imagination to see what their childhood could have been like. And more. Not stay on the surface.
Interesting what they bring up about how our perspective on life changes as our age grows. I feel that very much.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RFxHVR4x8Jg going further some romantic notions