Conversation is second only to sex”
We’re forgetting how to have it, yet it can lead to being smarter as well.
A lot is observed in conversation, body language signs.
Greeting important, mimic them, start small, get comfortable with small talk to build rapport, “why did you come”, ask for opinions, show interest and use topics like sport, culture.
Humour matters a lot, and try to avoid “no” and “so…”
Silence requires discipline.
Listen truly don’t make it about yourself!
Meanings behind words and tone.
Humour to release tension, bring contrast, make ideas collide in unexpected ways, buildup then release.
Use we, don’t mind using strong words, speak softly to make them lean in
Elusive, doubt, emotions
When in couple relate, keep in touch, don’t fear conflict too much
Networking: knows who to talk to and how to make them listen. Don’t be too direct
Reply with question?
We’re all so alike
Don’t pretend to know all, assume cooperation, try to get them to suggest it
Revert, smile
Fuck texting.