Jobs, the computer, the phone, social media, society, all of it is fake.
Only friends are real.
Once your basics are covered (or to get your basics covered, friends help for mental health)

We were not made to need a computer and all these things. You’ll be fine if they go.
The rat experiment showcases this. I should add a source, but basically a rat alone with a drug like sugar will overdose and die. But if it has a social life (for rats) and toys, it won’t overdose.
Because, I believe, all addictions simply imitate social connections and the Emergence that comes from them.